Life is a journey, enjoy the ride !!

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Kabhi kisi ko mukammal jahaan nahin miltaa
Kahin zameen to kahin aasmaan nahin miltaa
---Nida Fazli

"No one ever gets the entire universe
Somewhere the earth and somewhere the sky is missing"

Perfect life always remains a distant dream. Even after achieving the life we wished, we realize some or the other element missing or else sometimes everything goes so well, we were happy with our beloved ones but suddenly they leave us in the middle and we question ourselves "what went wrong ?". We do not want to look ahead and decide to live the rest of life in agony, pain and sweet memories. Our heart do not want to come out of those beautiful moments shell. Perhaps life is a journey...it must go on.

A slight modification

kabhi kisi ko muqammal jahan nahin milta
kisi ko zamin to kisi ko aasman nahi milta
mile jab mujhe mere zameen aasman
in dono ke beech wo jahan nahi milta...!

Jise bhi dekhiye vo apane aap mein gum hai
Jubaan milii hai magar hamajubaan nahi milta

"Whoever you see is lost in their own sorrow
They have thoughts to share but no companion to listen"


Solution to the above context

Grapple with the above situations - Our choice

People always desire materialistic things which gives momentary happiness. When you achieve the very thing you wanted, you realize you still long for some thing else. Even Ambani's aren't happy; they are richest, are married can get anything if asked but still they are indulged in fight. That shows that even after getting the universe they demand something else which they find missing in it. Nobody can achieve the ideal life until death which marks the destination of life.

We cannot control all the events that happen in our lives, but we can control how we deal with them.

Every relationship has an expiry date

Nothing is permanent. Neither happiness nor sadness. People get crazy sometimes when the things they planned doesn't go accordingly mainly due to external factors. The dreams they saw get shattered in the realms of time. Your life and plans should always be flexible and should accept the truth of time. People have difficulty to digest the pain of separation and face reality. One time or the other you have to get separated from all the relationships. Instead of crying you should feel blessed of becoming the person to had such unforgettable and sweet memories which no one else had which you can cherish life long . You lived an ideal life, at least for a span which others can never experience in their whole life.


Happiness is a Choice

Remember, a choice is never right or wrong, its just a choice but it decides the later course of life. A choice should always be opted after considering the person strengths, weakness and interests. One should never regret of his choice and should consider it a lesson to opt for a better one in the future path.

Life's a journey, not a destination

Life is a journey. We may never reach "perfection", but it doesn't matter. The process - the Journey - is the most important thing. How we live our lives day-to-day - that is what matters!
Try to live the journey with intention, passion and open-hearted awareness.
We can choose to complain about our life and wallow in self-pity. Or we can take charge of our thoughts and change our perspective.
One should better continue the Journey and live with pro-active intention, breath in the abundance offered in the Labyrinth of Goodies.